(Closed) Ew…SO…ew: TMI vent

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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380 posts
Helper bee

Oh ewww! Has he continued to do it after you brought it up with him, because if so, that’s a little gross! If it were me, I’d probably tell him he needs to wash his own towels if he’s going to do that, maybe that will help him realise just how icky it is!

Post # 4
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18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yeah that is when he needs to start cleaning his own towels or wipe when he uses the toilet.  Seriously, that’s disgusting.

Post # 6
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380 posts
Helper bee

@mcklough:  I get that cleaning the towels isn’t an issue, I meant if he was forced to see (and smell!) what he was doing by having to clean them himself, maybe that will help him see how gross it is and encourage him to stop?

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper

Gross, dude!  You should get a container of pop-up, flushable baby wipes and put them on the back of the toilet.  It may sound weird, but my family has always had them and when I introduced them to Fiance I think he was a little blown away (in a “how-did-I-not-know-about-these kind of way).  That could help, and he’d probably be more comfortable, too (I can’t imagine it feels good to have dried crap stuck to your butt, lol)!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow, that is gross! I agree that you should make wash his own towels.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

so to break it down – he uses a towel to wipe his arse after he showers or takes a poop?  in that case then he isnt doing the first job correctly

hes most prob embarrassed (why hes being defensive)  – what about buying him baby wipes (or the adult version) and telling him that this is better for him to finish the job???

otherwise im with you – i remember once waking my husband up from a nap screaming like a banshee because i just seen his bathroom and ive seen public toilets that are cleaner and i was disgusted he would think its 1, ok to do that and 2, leave it for me to clean. i went balistic – his toilet has always been clean since then

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m confused… there shouldn’t be poop there unless he uses the toilet, skips the paper, hops right in the shower without washing well then grabs the towel. Or he uses it instead of toilet paper. Either way, weird as heck.

I would be telling him to wash his own towels AND buying him black ones. That’s not acceptable!

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

EWWW!  I like juliepants’ baby wipes suggestion.  Could he be a bit – er- digestive, and have trouble cleaning properly?  Baby wipes can help that.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Don’t flush them, even if they say flushable. 

He should just not put the towel up there, and use a paper towel and wipe it. Kleenex makes a towel, and they’re soft. 

http://www.kleenex.com/handtowels/

Post # 14
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

when he showers he doesn’t…scrub…down there.

for the way Too Much Information dept – i hope you are not giving him bj’s. if you are stop immediately – that might also get his attention

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

*Cringe* He may get defensive, but its good you are letting him know this can’t continue. It just isn’t hygenic. If he insists on using more than toilet paper to clean, definitely go the disposable route.

 

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