(Closed) EwW when girls delete you off F.B for no reason ….smh

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

The word to insert is jealous.

Didn’t you just get engaged?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

well, she’s either trimming the fat or you really did do something to piss her off. either way, it’s just the internets!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Giving the cold shoulder is kind of childish, imo…it might be better just to talk to her and figure out why she deleted you. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

It might not have been on purpose.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Probably not you real friend or perhaps what you choose to talk about on your FB rubs her the wrong way!

I’ve never checked my list so Im not sure If i Have been deleted ever. Well I wouldn’t worry about it! Sorry that girls can be so crazy!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I just removed a friend I’m close with in real life because she kept posting inappropriate things. And I’m constantly seeing people on here post about being annoyed with friends facebook status or constant pictures. There could be a million reasons – legitimate or not that she de-friended you.

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@chesseplease: huh , well if your family, thats not a good way to start off! Try and mend things or see whats up, no cold shoulders!

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper

I randomly delete people all the time… no real reason – just not wanting to connect on FB terms…. if someone I deleted gave me the cold shoulder when I saw them, it probably would only affirm that we really weren’t ‘friends’ to begin with and it was the right decision.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@Just_Squeeze:Why does it always have to be jealousy?  Not everyone is just itching to get engaged.

This isn’t directed at you really but it seems that’s the go-to explanation around here.  “Oh your friend doesn’t want to hear about your wedding?” She’s jealous.  “Oh your mom doesn’t like the dress you picked?” She’s jealous.  “Your Future Sister-In-Law has been quiet lately?” She’s jealous. 

There are lots of reasons a person is removed as a friend from Facebook.  I’ve cleared people out if we aren’t as close or I didn’t want to see their updates anymore.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

First of all, it could have been a mistake.  Or she might just be a person who periodically deletes people she hasn’t talked to in a while.

I’ve noticed that sometimes when I think someone has deleted me, I find that their profile has just disappeared.  Then it just reappears.  I have no idea why people do that.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

@Eva Peron:

is it even possible to check?

@chesseplease:

Do you guys still hang out in the same circles/have the same stuff in common?  I mean, I just trimmed the fat EXTENSIVELY in my FB friends.  Not that I disliked or for any ill reason, it is just that many of them were people from a quite distant past with whom I had NOTHING in common with.  Their “That was the most awesomest DJ ever” or “Can’t wait to hit the dancefloor tonight” status updates made me a little forlorn for yester-year but mostly just don’t interest me anymore.  If I hadn’t seen them or talked to them on FB at the very least in the last year, they were gone.

 

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