Ex at your Wedding

posted 2 months ago in Guests
Post # 46
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Honey bee

A grown ass man that’s about to get married doesn’t stay in contact with someone inappropriate for “attention”, let alone invite them to their wedding. Are you all pretty young? Not trying to be a dick, honestly. 

Post # 49
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Blushing bee

A wedding is not just a party. Your guests are witnesses to what is not only a legal covenant, but a historic, intimate moment in both of your lives. When you consider it in this context, it can make people reconsier who they really want there. Only the people who you really want to celebrate this special moment with should be there with you. 

If the context was different and they were lifelong friends and she supported your union, then that is different. But I personally would not want just anyone at our wedding. Anyone who texts him about her boobs or to see if you two are still together is absolutely NOT supportive of your marriage, so I would not want them there. Also if you are in the early stages of planning and haven’t considered cost, you could explain to you fiance how much extra it costs to have just one extra person there, depending on the kind of wedding you have. 

If he really wants his ex to see that he is married, let her see it when you put the pictures on Facebook or Instagram. But she does not need to be at your wedding. 

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