(Closed) Ex boyfriend(s) are swarming like….. bees.

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@MsMelodyBee:  THIS. It happened to me as well. Ex bf before my Fiance still emails me occasionally, I tried the friendship thing with him, but it always got awkward, and he would be very flirty with him so I haven’t spoken to him since last November.

Then, a few weeks ago, a guy I went out with a few times over a period of a couple years emailed me, and we did not end things well, he was very hurt when I got together with my Fiance and told me he never wanted to see or hear from me again. Then he sends this email.

I feel like these exes get a buzzing in their ears or something when we get engaged and start new lives for ourselves! It’s crazy!

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yep.  Just got contacted by an ex the other day.  I blocked him.  I’m happily married; no need to be in contact with any exes.  This happens to everyone, I’m sure.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MsMelodyBee:   Question, how did your boyfriend feel about your meeting up with your ex for coffee?  Was he ok with it?

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MsMelodyBee: It’s so odd how exes always reappear at the most inopportune time, huh?   When Darling Husband and I was just dating, my crushes and old flames just starting coming out of the woodwork.  lol

I would have had coffee with an ex from the very begining of h.s., too.  Darling Husband wouldn’t care either. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MsMelodyBee:   Your boyfriend sounds really awesome.  He’s a keeper!  🙂

Post # 11
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1607 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

When I posted on fbook that Fiance and I got engaged, within a week 3 exs (with whom I had serious, long-term relationships with) emailed me. I had not spoken to either of them in 3-5 years. Both of them were just “saying hello because they were thinking of [me]”  I considered it a compliment (and Fiance and I had a good laugh.)

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

It happened earlier in our relationship, like when we were still dating. One was being oddly emotional. I shut it down quickly by telling them to kindly F off. Havn’t heard from them in years besides one oblivious idiot who kept sending me friend requests, I had to block him.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MsMelodyBee:  we both have private FBs also, but we do share mutual friends with our Exs. Someone must have told them. One of his exs suddenly resurfaced also- I imagine it’s pretty common in the new digital age! it was funny, though…

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

@MsMelodyBee:  this happened to me as well!!!!!! About a month or two after I started seeing my current boyfriend i have 3 or 4 of my exs contact me ant&a couple tried to get back together with me. It was so weird!

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

When it rains, it pours. This totally how it works sometimes.

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