(Closed) Ex- boyfriends that won't let go

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
Member
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MrsDeLovely:  I dont have any experience like this but I would say get a court ordered “no contact order” so he can not contact you or use anyone else to contact you. Sorry you are dealing with this!!

Post # 5
Member
9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@MrsDeLovely:  Stop responding.  Call your phone company and have him blocked.  Block his email (and do not open emails from unknown persons.)  Block him on Facebook, LinkedIn, etc… Let your family know that you do not want to hear from this person and you do not want to hear about this person.  Make sure family and friends are aware that you want zero contact with this person and let them know they might want to consider blocking him as well.  I am sure they will help you out with this with no problems.

I would also notify the police that he is harassing you and file a report so that if something happens, there is evidence that he was harassing you.  And absolutely zero contact and/or response with this guy.  Every time you have any contact, even minimal, he gets his hopes up so you need to cut off absolutely all contact.  I would also worry this guy might be stalking you; if you have any evidence of that go to the police immediately.  If he is willing to harm himself, he is willing to harm you too.

Post # 6
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11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

The next time he contacts you, text him or send him a written message that says please stop contacting me or I will have to file a harassment report with the police.  Keep a record of this.  Then, stop responding! Block him from everything you can! (don’t just defriend him on facebook, BLOCK him – I’d have your Fiance do the same) Change your number if you have to.  

The police usually won’t do anything if he’s harassing you via social media/text but it’s good to report it so it’s on file.  I’d give them a copy of the message you send him telling him to stop. 

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