(Closed) Ex-Bridesmaid. I really need your help.

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Okay so just so I make sure I understand everything correctly…You are afraid that your ex bridesmaid is going to tell your family and other wedding party members that your fiance used to be in prison?

If you really think that is a high possibility then you might as well just tell your family and friends. I have nothing against people that have a past, everybody does. Unless he is a crazy murderer (which i’m sure he isn’t since you are marrying him) then I’m sure it’s something that people will get over.

You don’t have to tell anyone if you don’t think she’ll actually say something. Its not her place. She sounds like a really awful friend and I understand you wanting to keep things civil but you’ve got to just let her go.

Also, do you really want to be running from his past for the rest of your lives together? Have a dirty little secret? I promise you, from personal experience, it is so nice to just let everyone know things like this instead of worrying all the time that someone will find out. Such a weight off the shoulders.

Post # 4
2515 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

people make mistakes. it happens. i would never be one to hold that against someone especially if they learned their lesson and changed their ways. it’s sad that your family might judge him because of a mistake he made when he was a teenager. is it possbile that since they know how he is now, that they will look past all of this? if you think they won’t, then can you appease this immature girl until your wedding date? i know that’s asking a lot but i see your date is a little less than 2 months away. she doesn’t deserve any niceties from you but as soon as the wedding is over, cut ties and at that point if she blabs and people get pissed, you can say “i didn’t mention it because it’s in the past and frankly, it’s nobody’s business.”

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