(Closed) Ex Engaged Last Week

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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9650 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@BearryL:  Um.  I think this course of action is unwise on your part if you want to get engaged any time soon.  I doubt your SO really cares how great a guy your ex is and how he proposed so soon to his girlfriend.  The comparison may make your SO run for the hills. 

Try putting yourself in his place.  What if he bragged on how great his  ex was, in some form or fashion?

Post # 4
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244 posts
Helper bee

@BearryL:  yea drop it, it can sound like you wished you were still with the other guy so you can be looking for venues and such.

Post # 6
Member
2224 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Tread verrrry carefully. Sounds to me like your SO might be more off-put by you talking about your ex than about weddings. An ex is not a friend.

Post # 7
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2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Um…that was actually pretty rude to your SO, especially the part about your ex’s financial situation. If I were him this would seriously make me re-think wanting to be with you at all. Sorry.

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