(Closed) Ex Fiance Won't Leave Me Alone

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969 - City, State

I remember your post about your controlling and manipulative ex, and glad to see that you ended things with him permanently!  If this guy can’t take a hint, then it’s time to get a restraining order on him.  

Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Two words: restraining order.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Yep, restraining order.  Now.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

How does he even know you’re seeing this other guy casually??

Get a restraining order immediately, and consider calling the police next time he shows up. What he’s doing might not necessarily rise to the level of stalking according to the laws in your state, but if I were you I’d want to start a paper trail. And having the police tell him to knock it off might be the kick in the head he needs. (Not to scare you, but obviously, being served with a restraining order or being contacted by the police could also have the opposite effect on him and make his behavior worse. So at all times be aware of your surroundings and your personal safety.)

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

File a restraining order, he sounds a little cuckoo for cocoa puffs.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Be safe. This guy is a creep. 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

I fifth or sixth restraining order.  He’s harassing you.  Also I very much hope that if you’re where you started (i.e. kicked him out) that you’ve changed your locks.  Also speak to security at work if you have security – he shouldn’t be allowed entry.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Please get a restraining order before this potentially gets out of hand and god forbid he does something completely irrational that hurts you or someone else. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

RO. My ex started this exact way. I ended up having to move across the country.

 

Do everything the legal way and do it all the time. Report everything. It is the only way to get anything done about it. 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

This is the guy who wants to be a cop? Oh goody. Please get a restraining order ASAP! 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Create distance….like change your # and move !

Post # 13
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Helper bee

Change your number for sure – I’d move as well 🙁

Post # 15
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Newbee

YES TO THE RO.  

Someone just commented that he wants to be a cop?  IF this is true, you gotta talk to a recruiting officer And help put a stop to it.. For everyone’s safety  

My ex was a psycho and manipulative – his own dad actually threatened him with a restraining order FOR me, told him to leave me the fuck alone. Funny thing – he wanted to be a cop and he bad the balls, a year later, to ask me to be his reference. I said no.  Then I called the police station, spoke with the recruiting officer about his obsessive / manipulative  / deranged behaviour. Sent in all the crazy emails and any proof I had – phone records, texts, emails.  Needless to say, he’s not a cop.  

 

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