(Closed) Ex-girlfriend

posted 6 years ago in Engagement
Post # 16
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Sugar bee

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blred09:  so he’s always been good friends with the ex since the breakup? As long as they weren’t being inappropriate, I’m having trouble understanding the issue here. 

Post # 17
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Helper bee

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blred09:  You’re pissed about messages from nearly 2 years ago? If they were standard “Hey, how are you doing?” messages and not in any way inappropriate you need to stop being so insecure. he MARRIED YOU, not her. Is he not allowed to have female friends? I have several friends who are males, some who I dated (albeit briefly) before I was with my Fiance and some are even attending our wedding. We talk on a regular basis, catch up on each other’s lives and nobody is “weird” about maintaining contact.

However, if these texts were more than just friendly catch up texts and involved any sort of “I miss you” or feelings talks, I can understand why you would be upset. Honestly though, the fact that he didn’t say anything doesn’t mean much if they were in fact innocent messages – he probably didn’t think it was a big deal because it wasn’t to him. I don’t mention every conversation I have with an ex with my Fiance because they’re all innocent.

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by A11eycat.
Post # 18
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Blushing bee

He knew what he was doing was wrong that’s why he hid it. I would have a serious talk with him because you don’t deserve that. She could easily lie for him. 

He needs to take your feelings seriously. It’s not a joke. Stand your ground. How would things be if the shoe was on the other foot?! 

Post # 19
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Newbee

really dont understand why youre mentioning this now when it happened 2 years ago? i can understand you being pissed at the time, but whats suddenly made you mention it now, just seems odd thing to suddenly decide to be annoyed over??

Post # 20
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Newbee

You should have put a stop to it way before getting married.

Marriage doesn’t fix people nor magically make problems go away.

And why on earth would you play along with him and FB his ex?

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