Ex left the engagement ring and a note and ran out the door

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
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Busy bee

RobbieAndJuliahaha :  Wow, you make a really interesting point. My ex and I had a pretty good relationship overall, but now that I think about it, there’s a night and day difference between how he treated me when I was sick (mostly avoidance, sleeping in separate beds so as not to get sick) and how my husband treats me (mostly cuddles and lots of tea and good food).

OP I agree with the others. The person you should marry should take “in sickness and in health” as a vow, not just as pretty words. I’m really sorry this happened to you, but I’m thankful that you dodged a bullet, and I wish you the best in moving past this and building a happy future for yourself.

Post # 17
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Wannabee

Like a few people have said, you dodged a bullet! My last relationship (which was headed towards marriage) ended when I found out I possibly had a brain tumor — which turned out to be an avm in my brain, which also causes seizures. My then ex just up and left me right before I was due for surgery. You deserve someone who will be there for you no matter what. This is more then likely for the best. Don’t worry though, there’s someone wonderful out there waiting to love you!

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