- 2 years ago
RobbieAndJuliahaha : Wow, you make a really interesting point. My ex and I had a pretty good relationship overall, but now that I think about it, there’s a night and day difference between how he treated me when I was sick (mostly avoidance, sleeping in separate beds so as not to get sick) and how my husband treats me (mostly cuddles and lots of tea and good food).
OP I agree with the others. The person you should marry should take “in sickness and in health” as a vow, not just as pretty words. I’m really sorry this happened to you, but I’m thankful that you dodged a bullet, and I wish you the best in moving past this and building a happy future for yourself.