(Closed) Ex related question…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Love songs he listens to with hs ex name in it?
    It's okay : (45 votes)
    82 %
    It would bother me : (10 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Honestly, it’s just a song. Unless it was his song with this ex and they had lots of important memories to this song, then it’s just another piece of music by one of his favorite artists.

    Honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t even conciously realize he was listening to a song with her name in it.

    Post # 4
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    1087 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Whoa, you mean if his ex’s name was Roxanne, he’d never be allowed to listen to this song ‘Roxanne’ again? That’s umm very over bearing and unrealistic.

    Post # 5
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    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I really don’t think it’s worth getting worried about at all. 

    Post # 6
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    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Not a big deal.

    Post # 6
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    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I wouldn’t be even slightly worried.  Is there a reason why you have such huge insecurities regarding her?

    Post # 6
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    3150 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2018

    i say you need to find something else to worry about. this is way too petty and controlling.

    Post # 6
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    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Double post.

    Post # 6
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    7606 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I can see this being a problem if I were in grade 4 or something, but I really don’t know how to answer the question, “what would you do”.

    UNLESS….he’s blasting it on repeat and sobbing.  Then maybe, there’s a problem.

    Post # 6
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    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    dblpost

    Post # 6
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    2755 posts
    Sugar bee

    Yeahhh… sorry, unless that song had specific meaning for them as a couple, I’d have to say it’s a bit over-the-top to be upset about. I agree with the PP who used the Roxanne song as an example.

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2018

    i say you need to find something else to worry about. this is way too petty and controlling. i’m sure there’s a chance he may even meet someone with that name. or work with them. man, you don’t own him or his ears. you have to let some things go.

    Post # 6
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    2103 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I want to hear from the 2 people who would be bothered by that. I don’t understand how this is even an issue.

    Post # 7
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    It WOULD bother me… yeah, it has to do with being insecure in yourself and the relationship between your SO and his ex, but I don’t think there’s anything.. not normal about that.  Especially if your SO and his ex are on good terms, there will always be that little seed of doubt.  However, it wouldn’t bother me to the point I’d tell him to stop listening to the song, or even bring it up.  It would just.. bother me.

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee

    I can see your point but I doubt it means anything – it’s just a song, it’s not THEIR song, besides, it might be a very negative song about a person with that name

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