(Closed) Ex texted me today….

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Block her number immediately and move on.  She is fishing for attention.  There is a reason you broke up and it takes a little work on your part to block communication from her.  Call up another friend and make plans to do something fun for your birthday ASAP!  It will help get your mind off your ex.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way.  Maybe it would be best if you asked her not to contact you anymore.  Might be easier to move on that way.

I hope you have the best Birthday you can all things considering.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Packers12:  You need to tell her to please not contact you again and if she can’t respect that, you need to call your phone carrier and have her number blocked.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Packers12:  my ex texted me on my birthday 4 years ago and we have been back together ever since…… just sayin

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I second pp, block her number and make plans with some friends. Have an awesome birthday.

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Packers12:  Exes do this. My ex would text me on my birthday years after we broke up. It’s just mind games.

Be strong.. think of why you’re better off without her.

Don’t reply.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’ve read your other posts, so I know your situation and the amount of pain you’re in. I’m sure she wasn’t trying to hurt you by texting, but rather was attempting to be nice. I’m sure you’d probably be hurt if you didn’t hear from her, too, as if she forgot your birthday or something. So really this is a no-win situation for both of you. You’re not really asking for advice, but mine would be to not respond to the text. If she’s not interested in rekindling the relationship, your best bet is to steer clear and give yourself time and space to heal. I know sometimes it probably feels like you’ll never feel better. But you will. It just takes time, and lots of it. If she texts again, ask her to stop texting you. I really don’t think she’s trying to be malicious, but she needs to understand that she can’t be in your life only on her terms.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Maybe she’s not trying to be malicious or playin’ games with your heart  (yes, Backstreet boys), but since it upset you so bad you might tell her you appreciate her thoughtfulness but to please not reach out to you again, OR you just ignore it and move on like the post above me said to do. Blocking her number is extreme unless she has been harrassing you.

 

Happy birthday!!!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

@jigga143:  yeah, but she left him and broke off their engagement a month ago. She’s just being cruel, not looking to get back together.

Call the phone company and block her number. Nothing good will come from her being able to contact you. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

After being divorced for two years, my ex texted me on my birthday this year too.  He was the one that didn’t want to be married in the end!  I ignored it and thus maintained the power balance because I know he wants me back but I have happily(!!!) moved the F on.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MeiFrancis:  ohhh gotcha, wasnt aware of the back story 🙁

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

happy birthday… for what its worth. Try to enjoy your day.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

@Packers12:  change your number. and dude, are you in therapy? you need to get over this.

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