Post # 32
From the other side…I know I’m being called the crazy one…sad thing is his new wife believes it. When we went to counselling, they pulled me into my own session to tell me that they were concerned for my safety. When we separated he stalked me (insert restraining orders!), made my life a living hell and chose not to see our kids for 2 years and now plays with their heads (even our daughter says that). He even bought a house with his new wife two houses away from my boyfriend’s house and then I found out they had looked at the house next door! Creepy! Because I know his MO I can see what he’s doing…they don’t hang out with any of his old friends…none were invited to their wedding…they all say it’s because he’s isolating her just like he did me.
My FH has never been married before and has no kids but I have met lots of his old friends and he is still friends with most of his old gfs. Even though things didn’t work out with any of them, they all love him and are very happy for us…goes a long way in helping me know I’m not the crazy ex! lol
Post # 33
My fiance’s ex girlfriend is crazy! His family and even her friends think this about her. She’s mean and violent. I am usually not petty like this, but I am so much prettier, educated and nicer than she is! In the first year we dated I was driving myself crazy-obsessed with why he would ever go out with her. What annoyed me more, is that he would never say anything bad about her. This may sound crazy on my end, but I was like, what, does he still not see it? No, he did, but he is nice and doesn’t say bad about others anyway, and when I confronted him, he told me he was embarressed about it and he knew how awful she was, but he didn’t want to talk about it. I am generally not jealous or petty or the type to ruminate on things, but it honestly drove me crazy. I would get upset about thinking of all the cool things they did together-travelling, etc. They went out for years. He never once brought her on his family vacation (none of them liked her anyway). The first year we were dating and family vacation time came around, he invited me. His family loves me. Finally after a year I got a grip and let it go. It was totally out of my character to be so crazy about the whole thing and I think it was generally out of his character to go out with someone like that. I am so happy I stopped being a freak about the whole thing-now I could care less about any of it.
Post # 34
Don’t worry, you’re totally fine 🙂 My mom was my dad’s second wife after a nutcase of a first wife, they’re celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary this year and are as happy as can be! And she’s totally sane 🙂
Post # 35
I know I’m crazy, but I’ve got a good heart.
DH’s first wife was a selfish, cheating bitch. And stupid to boot. You know that video with the chick who can’t figure out how long it takes to go 80 miles if you’re driving 80 mph? Yeah, she’s that kind of stupid. She and Darling Husband were driving to the Florida Keys on the Seven Mile Bridge. She honestly believed that if he drove faster, the bridge would get shorter!