(Closed) Exboyfriend got married

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2706 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@Confuscious10:  Whoa, girl — PARAGRAPHS!


This guy is CLEARLY a mess, you need to stay away, don’t text/talk/email anything with him at the very least until he can show you a Divorce Decree.  Even then I still wouldn’t recommend it.  He’s playing both you and his wife.

Post # 4
844 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

He’s a lying, cheating jerk. Cut him off.

Post # 5
139 posts
Blushing bee

Uhh. Yikes. He sounded like a total dick from the beginning. PLease rid him of your life and stop wasting your energy on him. Also, who wants to be with a man who is cheating on his fiancee up until two weeks before the wedding. Sick. SMH.

(p.s. try to break it up with paragraphs, it was hard to read ><) 

Post # 6
2567 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Seriously this is a train wreck waiting to happen. You need to put him in the past and move on with your life.  No matter what your future holds, if this guy is in it (even if he’s still married to the other girl), you’re going to have tons of drama and trouble.  Don’t text him, don’t respond if he texts you, take him off of facebook, just cut your ties and move on with life. Nothing good comes of a situation like this.


Post # 7
1018 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Confuscious10:  Stop.  Just stop.  If he cheated on her, he will cheat on you.  This is NOT healthy. Cut him out of your life and move on.  And STOP letting him cheat with you!!

Post # 8
839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Confuscious10:  KARMA is my only word to describe whats happening to him. Stay away from him. He got what he deserves.

Post # 9
1286 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Why are you even still talking to him?  And letting him cheat on his then fiancee with you?  He’s been using you the whole time.  Please just stop all contact with him.

Post # 10
8066 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

He’s just not that into you.  And he’s a complete jerk who is only using you.  Run away!!  Seriously cut him out of your life.  Don’t respond to texts, don’t respond to calls, delete him from facebook, don’t talk to him PERIOD.  You cannot stay friends with him either, cut him out of your life completely or one day you will be very sorry that you did not.

Post # 11
33 posts
  • Wedding: May 2014

Run away, girl. This man does not respect you, does not respect his wife, does not respect marriage. He is a manipulator, and only concerned with how he feels and chasing his next good feeling. I’ve been there, and it leads no where good.

Dont return his texts, calls or email. He will say he loves you, amd wants to marry you, and all sorts of things to win you back, but once he has you will not change. He will cheat and lie to you more. Get out there and meet a man who has respect for himself, for you, and for your relationship. 

Pit will hurt, but someday you will be amazed and horrified how you let this man control and manipulate your emotions. Don’t do this to yourself. You deserve better. He doesnt care about you; he cares about making himself feel good. 

I’ll pray he leaves you alone, and you find the strength to walk away and find a good life. This is no way to live and love.

Post # 12
4685 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

@Confuscious10:  Im confused as to why you would still even converse with this person when you know he is married, miserable or not. have some more respect for yourself and find someone who makes you number one. Dont wait on or chase this guy anymore than you already have. You are far more mild than I am, there is no way in hell I would even speak to someone who played me like he has played you. You are available whenever he wants to speak to you and when he doesn’t there isn’t a thing you can do about it and yet even after those times you still seem to jump to respond to him. You need to find a way to get over this jerk. cut all ties and move one. Immediately. Any other course of action on your part will just be asking for more hurt and drama.

Post # 14
183 posts
Blushing bee

yea, move on….TRUST MEEEEEE…My ex was crazy like that too, once I found a REAL man, I realized how much time I wasted on him…

Post # 15
2592 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Confuscious10:  STAY AWAY! He is bad news girl and you don’t need that. You never wanna be someone fall back plan, no one does. So stand tall and walk away, cut all ties, never speak to him again. It’s for the best

Post # 16
5708 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

You guys are both toxic in my opinion. You know he is married (not quite divorced) and you are still planning and hoping something may happen, and he decides to be a cheating, lying dog about everything, ever since you guys were together. You need to just cut him out of your life unless you like this game.

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