(Closed) Exboyfriend got married

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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11735 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Besides the fact he is STILL married, he’s a lying cheating fucktard, have some self respect and stay away from him.

Post # 18
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8434 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

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@Confuscious10:  Um the guy you described sounds so douchey that it doesn’t even seem real, he’s like a bad movie character.  I’m not contesting the validity of your story, but just WOW.  This guy is toxic, and you need to be glad that you have probably just dodged the world’s most dysfunctional bullet.

Post # 19
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1837 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

get out of this situation ASAP

Post # 20
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489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Stay away from this guy! He has shown you time and time again that he’s Bad News Bears.

 

Post # 21
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1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This is absolutely toxic.  I’d stay from him. 

Post # 22
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43 posts
Newbee

thanks everyone, so very true. he is bad news and after i didnt speak to him since May 6th, he’s trying to pry himself into my life by telling me things I wanted hear before. then he can continue stringing me along, giving me false hope as he did before. I was done him him didnt speak to him for weeks. wt hell doe she want. He mustve gotten into a huge fight with her and trying to reconcile with me and god know who else.

Post # 23
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1461 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Run away and never look book! 

Post # 24
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43 posts
Newbee

I actually want to rip his head off for coming at me like he was serious and not following thru. i actually thought he really meant it, but then doesnt say anything else for days 5 days and still nothing, even after I questioned him yesterday, he didn;t say anything in defense?? So obviously he was playing games. ugh sickening

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Eww, I’m with everyone else. Run away, do not look back! Why would you even entertain the thought of being involved with such a scumbag? One who married someone else over you to boot?

Post # 26
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43 posts
Newbee

im upset with him, the nerve of him, I went thru hell trying to get over this and once again he nonchalantly tries to play games and uses it to enter my life. This is exactly why, i made it clear to him we are not on good terms and keep moving when you see me. He thought we were friends no., not at all. we didnt sit down ant discuss anything. Im mad at me for giving in and now in turn want answers from him as to why he did this. Which i will only stress myself out to get so Im not going to even attempt to.

Post # 27
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464 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

There is no innocuous texting, messaging, etc until you have moved on.  See what happened when you wished him Happy Father’s Day?  Checked his Facebook page?  You need a clean complete cutoff without temptations until you realize that no man is worth all that heartache, you deserve better, and everything he’s done to other women and sneaking around he’ll do to you.

 

It’s hard at first, but slowly gets easier and then when you’ve moved on you’ll know you can.  I’ve watched many an ex marry and even screw up their lives but there’s a big difference between letting go of something I thought I wanted for me and detached sympathy.

 

Post # 28
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3723 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Confuscious10:  He’s bad news and you acted TERRIBLY yourself. No good can come of this. Tiem to grow up and get with the program!

Post # 29
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4522 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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@MrsWBS:  Jesus Christ, yes. +10

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@Confuscious10:  I didn’t even need to finish reading the second paragraph:

-He was ENGAGED to (not dating) another woman and you continued to sleep with him until 2 weeks before his wedding? Seriously?

-He’s clearly a great guy: leads you on, cheats on his Fiance, AND is the kind of guy to air his divorce laundry on facebook?

And THIS is a guy you’re hung up on? This winner? You need to get your mind right, sister. I would not want the karma associated with sleeping with an engaged guy. I’m not going to sit here and give you a “you-can-do-better” pep talk,  because I think you crossed some serious lines here yourself. Time for a little reflection.

Post # 30
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Confuscious10:  look at what he has done to you and what he is doing to his wife.  do you really want to be with someone like this???  really?

once you found out he was engaged, you should have cut all ties with him.  you have just been accepting and enabling his poor behaviour.  some men like woman that they can control.  this is not a good man.

don’t be a fool.  have some self respect.  walk away.  let him deal with his marriage, one way or another.

Post # 31
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Buzzing Beekeeper

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@badabing88:  +1, exactly this. Thanks for saving me writing it 😛

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