- 9 years ago
I told him I regret speaking to him
i know he’s a douchebag, liar, manipulator, cheating asshole and soome other things. he will get what he deserves
@Confuscious10: I think you are placing the blame all on him and even though he is the main one at fault here since he’s the one who was engaged and married he is not the only one who didn’t make great choices. You need to reevaluate your own behavior as well. Yes he reached out to you when he shouldn’t have but you responded and you continuously let him back in even though you knew he was engaged and then married. He is obvioulsy a dog and he needs to be forgotten about, but let’s not just ignore the bad choices you made as well. Try and hold yourself to higher standards in the future and make better choices. Have more respect for yourself and for others as well. You may not know his wife, but she exists and has real feelings and is a real person. You seem to not even care that you are having conversations with a married man, saying things like “i miss you too”.
Aaannddd he gets cut. Know. You can do better.
@stardustintheeyes: I know i am wrong as well. It just hurts to know this is th e femaile he cheated on me with, denied it and told me she was his sister, then for months was invoklved with and I didn’t know anything. This doesn’t change anything but I asked him if he was with someone when he told me he missed me, after he said he is leaving, I then said I missed him as well. Again, I know that does not justify anything and I was also wrong for allowing things to occur. I allowed my emotions to take control when I knew certain things were wrong. I appreciate yours and everyones advice on here. I definitely have a lot of work to do on myself and am angry at myself for having obviously low self esteem that I continued dealing with this piece of crap after I found pictures of this whore and him during our relationship.I am a good women that has made bad choices and am fully aware of them and don’t want to ever make them again. I honestly, don’t even want to be in the same room as him or share the same air after this. this was the last straw. I feel bad for the person who got to deal with him and just think his Karman was dealt with who he is dealing with. Now my hands are wiped clean and he is erased out my memory. i let him know we are not friends, when you see me keep going. he thought lie that he was back in my life, yeah ok. I picked up on his game already.
Good news-I went to church last night. I need help with my healing.
@Confuscious10: Yeah this guy is out of control. No more tecxting him. It’s for your own good, in your own interest. You have the power- the power to ignore him! You deserve a guy who is going to treat you right. I don’t think I’d be able to forgive someone who lied about getting engaged and won’t actually talk about things and face the facts. He’s a loser.
Im going to meet me a nice church man and be 100% honest, loyal, loving, supporting to him. If he takes then great if he acts up just a little, im gone. I need to love myself more no matter what
I think I stayed putting up with this because he is the second man I slept with and he told me we would get married then rushe doff with this person. I do not want to sleep with another man so I thought I could fix things but I rather not any have sex again than to put with this nonsense
Wow.. I’m not really sure where to begin with this one? Instead of pointing out line by line all the things you both are doing wrong to each other, I’ll simply say CUT TIES and MOVE ON. This whole situation is freaking strange. Also, how can you even envision a future with him if you know he’s a liar and a cheater? If I were you I would never ever trust him or feel secure in a relationship. As for yourself, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and do NOT contact him anymore.
@Confuscious10: I would refrain from calling this other girl a “whore”. You have no idea what kind of lies he was telling her as well. Even if she is the one he cheated on you with, he’s the whore, not her. Keep your anger directed at him, that’s where it belongs.
It’s good that you went to church, if that’s what helps you to stay strong and heal. It’s also a very good thing to see you say that you need to love yourself more. You should always come first. Good luck!
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