Exboyfriend got married

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 107
Member
1314 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Confuscious10:  Everyone is telling you to run, so I don’t need to be another Captain Obvious. What is bothering me is that you seem as if you are ready to be with him if he leaves his wife. I see hope and wishful thinking in your posts, and if that is the case then you are missing the point. Who give a hot schitt if he does want to sit down and talk? Who gives a flying phuck if he isn’t playing games? Who gives a rat’s rotund azz if he does want you back? YOU SHOULDN’T. He is a loser who will never be happy no matter what a woman does, and he will break the heart of any woman who gives him half of a chance. I don’t mean to be harsh but you really need to wake the hell up. He is married and you are basically assisting him in cheating. What if he were your husband? How would you feel? Whatever his reasons, and whatever BS he is laying on you now, he didn’t love you enough to marry you. Honestly, you should be rejoicing because look at the poer soul who was “lucky” enough to get his love that was worthy of marriage. He is a POS and he makes me sick. Stay away from him, work on your self esteem, and find a man that will make you question your insanity for spending 1 day with this colossal douche nozzle. 

Post # 108
Member
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m not going to lie. The fact that you know he is married and are still trying to maintain a relationship with him is selfish, immature, and gross. You are helping to wreck his poor life’s world. 

Stop it.

Post # 110
Member
354 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I’m confused…he cheated on you when you were together…then, you helped him cheat on his fiance? That’s pretty messed up, in my opinion. Does she know about you? This guy is obviously scum, since he cheats on all his girlfriends. I think it’s pretty crappy that you would inflict that hurt on another woman after you’ve been burned yourself.

Post # 111
Member
1261 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@Confuscious10:  Woooah, honey. This guy is a prize one lying, CHEATING, manipulative piece of trash, and you have been enabling him to do that every step of the way! You need to break off contact with this POS, immediately and completely. You let another girl get put in an even worse situation by going along and believing this jerk, now it’s time for you to rectify that by cutting off this guy’s emotional rebounds.

Post # 112
Member
310 posts
Helper bee

@Confuscious10:  He is not worth the time it takes you to open his text messages.  

 

Delete/block/ignore him.  You’ve gotta cold turkey it, it’s the only way.  And remember, when they cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you and once a cheater, always a cheater.  You deserve so much better.  You don’t wanna be the one he marries and then wants to divorce months later.  Keep walking girl.  Chin up.

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