(Closed) Exception to our “strict” no kids rule?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@KIKI82: Just say yes and pay for it… you shouldnt ask your sister pay for her foster child to come…

Post # 4
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2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I’d say yes. That little girl has been through enough, I think it would be best to make her feel welcome.

Post # 5
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1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It is honestly up to you and your Fiance, but at this point, if I were in this position, I would just say yes.  You likely haven’t given numbers to your caterer yet, so I don’t think adding an extra child meal would be a problem. Your sister really can’t leave a 5 year old foster child at home, so it will be easiest to just say yes.  Good luck! 

Post # 7
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6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I would say yes and pay for it. I don’t think people will be upset if you’re letting your sister bring her foster child and they can’t bring their kids, they’ll probably understand.

Post # 9
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I would say yes. She is your sister and Im sure she wouldn’t want to leave the foster child in care of someone else. I would pay for the dish as well. I know you have to draw the line at some point, as did I… but when it comes to siblings, no one will make a comment.

Post # 10
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I might just be prepared that a few people will be miffed. But you’ll be too busy on your wedding day to even notice!

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