- 9 years ago
So after writing my last post I took a lot of your advice and I decided just to relax and focus on our relationship. Not his sisters, just OURS. I also sat down and apologized for letting everything get to me and explained why I was feeling the way I was. It was so stupid of me to get upset, here’s a man who has a ring and IS going to propose in the near future. I just needed to recognize that and calm the heck down!
Well, last night we were driving home and I said jokingly “my ring finger just looks so naked recently!” He laughed and replied with “what’s my deadline?” I said that he didn’t have a dead line but before Thanksgiving would be nice……..his reply?!?! “You got it” WITH a smile might I add! AHHH I can’t control myself it’s so close so I am trying to shut my mouth. He said he doesn’t mind if I talk about it as long as it’s in a playful tone and not an argumentative one. I seriously think ever since I made the effort to focus on the relationship itself and not so much getting engaged we have done a 180. I couldn’t be happier.