(Closed) Sick with worry (vent!!)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
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  • Wedding: October 2012

I feel for you.  I wish I had advice for you!  But I do have a happy ending story for you.  My ex turned up bipolar a couple years into marriage and liked the way he felt off meds when he was manic so even though he said the meds made him feel normal and had no side effects he wouldn’t take them.  Like you no kids, he did buy a house while we were seperated (afer 4 years of marriage).  He hired a lawyer because of the house and I said as long as it was what we agreed on I’d sign it.  At one point, he threatened to contest the divorce HE put to the court.  I calmly told him I didn’t think he could contest it if he was the petitioner, but he might be able to withdraw it.  I said it calmly but he drove me nuts!

In the end he signed it, I signed it, he didn’t try to contest it (I’d love to see how that would have worked lol) and it went through.  The notary at our bank when I went to notarize my signiture on the divorce decree (it was free) said “I’m sorry if this is out of line but he did seem pretty off his rocker the last few times I saw him”.  I just laughed!  When we split our accounts he got upset (and made a crazy scene) at the bank because we agreed to evenly split and I had them give him his share (lol) and she was there then.

 

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