(Closed) Exes, Exes, Everywhere.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Did you have exes coming after you like zombies hungry for brains after you got engaged?
    Yes! : (10 votes)
    22 %
    Nope! : (26 votes)
    58 %
    They said congrats but then left me alone! : (3 votes)
    7 %
    Other! Please explain : (6 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
    724 posts
    Busy bee

    Hahaha, this happened to a friend of mine.  I gave her some bug spray at her bachelorette party and taped a label over it that said “Ex Spray.” 

    As for me, not engaged yet but I really hope not.  I tend to get emotional about the past so I’m definately not eager to go down memory lane.  Most of them have moved on…but one in particular likes to pop up once or twice a year or so like an unwelcomed trip to the dentist and I can totally see him doing that.  I have a block button and I will use it!

    Post # 4
    2854 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Any ex that would realistically call me, Fiance & I are actually friends with. Several were invited to the wedding, one is coming.

    The others, especially the last one? Well. I’m pretty sure they don’t have enough of a set for that.

    Post # 5
    9690 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    My ex keeps texting and emailing to ask me get together “just one last time.”  Uh, NO.  Even though I told him I’m engaged he’s not getting it, so now I just ignore him.

    Post # 7
    3220 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Nope, nothing yet (thank goodness!)

    Post # 8
    4109 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Not to a crazy extent. My ex did call (after a couple years not talking) and wanted to go to lunch after he found out on facebook though.

    Post # 9
    4313 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I didn’t have that many exes & did not keep in any sort of contact where they would know I was engaged immediately.  So, no.  My immediate ex did message me one day like a year later via AIM, and I did not respond and blocked him.  Really didn’t think it was any of his business what I was doing.

    Post # 10
    2263 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Yes, yes that happened to me as well. It’s amusing so I honestly just sat back and watched the show. As soon as some guys know you’re off the market they want you back…. beats me. 

    Post # 11
    1091 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I’m not engaged yet, but SO has the ring! I’ve noticed lately that 2 of my 3 exes have started talking to me more often. I’m friendly with both of them (JUST friends!), SO knows that I talk to them, and has even spoken to one. But it seems like exes know the engagement is close/has happened and want to know if you’d like to ‘sow your wild oats’ with them. Just ignore them, block them if they pester you too much, and remember why they’re your ex(es) 🙂

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