(Closed) Exited! But not jumping the gun or anything…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Well good for you!  You never know about what could happen. My Fiance and I did the same thing. He started to want to a plan a wedding to just a few short months into our relationship. We started dating in June 2009. Moved in together in September of 09 and then engaged in February 2010.  I think that if he’s talking about it and mentioning it, then it’s probably going to happen soon! Yippie for you!

Post # 5
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630 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

my fiance and i started dating when i was 20 and he was 21. we dated for three years before he proposed- but we really knew we wanted to get married after a few months. i always say if we had met when we were older we would have gotten engaged right when we knew ๐Ÿ™‚

my mom and my dad are 8 years apart too!

Post # 6
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1222 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Who cares what others say?! You’re happy, he’s happy and you both know what you want. When it’s right, it’s right!

Post # 7
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797 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Good for you!! I like how you’re just soaking in the good times now and being level-headed about pros and cons of getting engaged over the holidays.  You and your bf sound really sweet together  ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 8
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Sounds awesome!!  Don’t let what others say bother you… people are going to be people.  They will have something to say about you no matter WHAT you do… gotta stick with what feels right for you!

My Boyfriend or Best Friend and I started dating on Dec 31st 2009, then moved in together the following May.  We started talking about getting married around the end of Jan/ early February, I believe.  We both knew right away that this was it for us… nothing wrong with that!  We went looking at rings a few weeks before we moved in together.  He just wanted to get an idea of what I like.. I told him that I wanted HIM to pick out my ring & I don’t want to see it before the propsal.  He’s picked out a ring… I don’t think he has bought it yet though.  Just waiting.. as patiently as I can, lol..

But yeah, if he’s bringing it up on his own without any prodding from you, that’s a huge sign to me! 

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