- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
Over the last several months my husband has been very ill. For a while we really thought that he wasn’t going to make it. Today he is mostly fine except for a few minor things. In order to take care of those things his doctor suggested he go on a medication. My husband decided not to go on the medication and wait it out to see if it resolves itself. But he made this decision without even asking me what I thought or my opinion. Se says that he doesn’t need to consult me on everything.
I don’t think that he is totally wrong for not going on the medication. I am just hurt that he never talked to me about it before he made the decision. I don’t think that he needs to consult me on everything, but his illness was a very serious and scary situation for both of us. I think that important/serious decisions should be discussed together and I was hurt that he didn’t think enough of my opinion or thoughts to ask about them before making the decision on his own. Do I expect too much? Would you expect your partner to talk with you before making important decisions that could have an impact on both of you?
Thank you for your help.