- 12 years ago
Last night my partner blew up at me when I showed him some options – I made a spreadsheet and it was just under budget but he flipped over how much individual things cost – he said I didn’t need to spend the whole budget and why couldn’t I find cheaper options?
Isn’t that the point of a budget? If we wants us to spend less, shouldn’t he say that? I’m fine with that!!
Plus, he said I am PRETENTIOUS which might be what is really upsetting him. He does not like anything that is even the slightest bit close to being fancy or fashion-y. I mentioned trying to get married at small museum and he bit my head off!
And i’d like to do something very unique of course, and he said WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO BE UNIQUE? I don’t get it – doesn’t everyone want their wedding to be unique and special?