(Closed) Experimented with the same sex?

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you ever experimented with the same sex?
    Yes : (191 votes)
    40 %
    No : (287 votes)
    60 %
  • Post # 3
    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I guess it started as experimenting, then realized I really, really liked it.  Looking back, I think I was attracted to girls long before I was attracted to guys (first crush on a girl was age 8 or 9, on a guy wasn’t until age 12).

    I’m kind of terrified of hitting on women, though, so I’ve dated more men than women.

    Post # 4
    3010 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Oh yeah.  I had my days of “experimenting”.  I admit, they were fun, but I’m over it now.

    ETA: It wasn’t your typical drunk experiments either.  There were feelings involved.

    Post # 5
    9816 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    A drunken makeout once or twice in college.

    Post # 6
    3048 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    Nope, I never was interested in that.

    Post # 7
    2495 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    Nope, I’m just not sexually attracted to other women, so it wasn’t for me!

    Post # 8
    11050 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    No, thought about it but never did

    Post # 9
    83 posts
    Worker bee

    I admit that I think girls are very sexy. There is something about the female body that is very sensual! I mean, you don’t see people laughing at female strippers, but male strippers are just hilarious! BUT whenever it comes to actually doing something physical with another woman, I don’t get turned on. It just doesn’t do it for me. Men, though, do 😉 I find my bf simply amazing to be with sexually (sorry if it’s tmi!). So while looking at women can turn me on, actually being with them does not. I’m not sure what you would classify my sexuality as because of that (maybe bi-curious?), but I consider myself straight since I seek physical and romantic attachments with men rather than women. I’m weird, I know.

    Post # 10
    2088 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’ve made out with quite a few girls (not always drunk, I should point out) but nothing ever went past that. I actually had a huge crush on a girl I knew through mutual friends and was considering asking her out on a date (she was bisexual and seemed interested in me) until I met my Fiance. 

    Post # 11
    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

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    @ttwo2:  I actually don’t think that’s that weird.  I feel like I’ve heard a number of people say something similar.  I think part of it is that women are hot, but also part of it is that society really conditions people to see women as sexier than men.  There’s just so much more exposure in the media and in social situations to women as sexual objects and beings than men as those things.

    The reality is always more fluid than the labels, but I think if you’ve opened yourself up to the possibility of being bisexual and found that there’s not really there to turn you on, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re bicurious because you find women attractive. 

    ETA: not sure if I made this all that clear, but labels are only guidelines anyway and I’m not really an authority on anything so if you feel like you classify yourself that way, it’s totally cool too!

    Post # 12
    3613 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    No way. A girl kissed me once and I found it less exciting than when I kissed a tree (a very drunk moment).

    Post # 13
    258 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    I had a LTR in Nursing school with my roomate, we were both away from home and our BFs and it was convient and very erotic. She was beautiful and we were very close friends anyways, so it just worked really well. We got married the same month and had one last fling the week before I got married(I was married two weeks before her).


    It was great, we studied together, shopped together and slept together!


    Now she’s a mom and we still talk every other day, but we havn’t had any phyiscal intamacy in a year and a half

    Post # 14
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I had a one very drunken weekend in college with a boyfriend and another girl he was having sex with (I was cool with it at the time). It was fun, but nothing I ever felt the urge to repeat. 

    Post # 15
    5920 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    No, other than a peck in high school on a dare.  What is about boys wanting to see cheerleaders kiss? LOL. 

    Just not interested in that.

    Post # 16
    1331 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    Just an occasional fantasy, but not enough strong feelings to compel me to make it reality.  The lesbian porn scenes can get kinda hot, and I wonder if I’d ever be good at it, lol, but even in college I never had the urge to experiment. 

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