(Closed) Experimented with the same sex?

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you ever experimented with the same sex?

    Yes

    No

  • Post # 17
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    Bumble bee

    Nope. No attraction to women.

    Post # 19
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I’ve thought about it, and honestly wish I had but nope, nothing has ever lead past crushes and cheek pecks.

    Post # 20
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Yes, a few encounters messing around.

    Post # 21
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    I have. I mean of course the occasional making out with best friends that are females all of high school , but then I experimented with my best friend…. we went as far as two females can. I enjoyed it but I love men WAY more. I think it was a good experience and something that I do not regret. I became very comfortable with my own body by being with her… kinda a self esteem boost. Shes still a very good friend to me. Also, my “little” sis in my sorority *( NOT BLOOD RELATED IN ANY WAY)* she got her coochie pierced and nipples pierced and of course the first thing i said was LET ME SEE! I enjoy messing with the same sex, its completely harmless and fun. It feels soo naughty for some reason. Ive made out with multiple girls and “messed” around with 2-3 girls.

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    @Linz1231: And YES to the lets see the cheerleaders make out! hahah ohh high school days.

    Post # 22
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    One of my good friends and I made out once but I really wouldn’t consider it experimenting.

    We’d made a bet with our boyfriends at the time (now my DH and her FI) and we lost.  As the losers, we were to make out with each other for our boyfriends.  They both thought that it was way hotter than either of us did!

    Post # 23
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Nope. Not at all. I think women are beautiful, but I just have no sexual attraction to them whatsoever. 

    Post # 24
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I have been with more women than men and my longest relationship was with a woman and it lasted 7 years. I JUST OUTED MYSELF!!! AHHH! (I’ve never mentioned on here before)

    The best part of my story includes my fantastic mother. I had an amazing set of very supportive parents. My father took a little longer to come around, but eventually did. They loved my ex to death and treated her just like a daughter. My mother even began to run her own PFLAG chapter.  As I became older I realized that I was becoming more interested in men. When I was 26, I left my ex and I told my mother that I thought I might want to date men. She looked at me and said, “Oh my” (her eyes began to well up) “How will I tell all my friends”.  Classic!

    Post # 25
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

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    @mwitter80: hahaha so cute!! 

    No interest. It wouldn’t be true to my own sexual desires, so I never tried.

    Post # 26
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

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    @mwitter80: I was with a girl for three years.  Her parents hated me.  My family just shrugged it off.  It was interesting to say the least.  We ended it when I was 18 then I was single until I was 21 and met J.  🙂

    Post # 27
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    Ive had crushes on girls and hooked up with some but have never had a serious relationship with one. My friendship with my ex best friend was honestly more like a relationship than a friendship but neither of us defined it that way (I still refer to our parting as a breakup..which I didn’t realize until someone pointed it out this weekend). I wouldnt be against having a relationship with a female but since I am getting married and my Fiance is very into monogomy that will probably never happen.

    Post # 28
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    Sugar bee

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    @wbrn:

    one last fling…

    How is that any different from f*cking an ex boyfriend one last time before marriage?  thats horrible

    Post # 29
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

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    @mwitter80:  Aw, your mom is awesome!

    Post # 30
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    Buzzing bee

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    @Oneeleven: Unless her husband knew about it and was okay with it. 

    Post # 31
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    Sugar bee

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    @Gingersnap:

    True.  I shouldn’t open my yap until I know the facts

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