Ex's gf is sending me pics!

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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10491 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Beat her up in the parking lot. But that’s not mature and you would likely go to jail so disregard that piece of advice.

Im not sure if you have any recourse legally (legal bees?) and other than continuing to block her I don’t know what else to suggest. I imagine if you talk at all to your ex it will just make things worse. Eventually if you don’t respond I think she’ll get bored and quit.

Sorry bee, this really sucks.

Post # 3
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651 posts
Busy bee

I would get a new email. Had to once for similar reasons… ex kept trying to contact me. If he wasn’t showing up to my work or home…. or calling me… he was emailing me or making fake accounts/spoof phone numbers left and right. So yes you can block all day… but the best thing to do is just create a whole new email account and move all your accounts over to that email… and new phone number too (in my case). It is WAY easier than waiting on the next new phone number or email to come in… Because they will not KNOW either of those… 

Post # 5
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573 posts
Busy bee

Cut them both out of your life asap. Now more answering calls or woman-to-woman. Their relationship is none of your business. Delete all messages and block all contact. 

Change your email address/phone number if need be or get the police involved if they’re harrassing you. Don’t answer any of their messages. Ignore, delete, block. 

No one needs that shit.

Post # 6
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560 posts
Busy bee

This crap infuriates me… what is wrong with people?!?!? I think not talking to her or saying anything is your best route because any engagement at all will just egg her on. Definitely get a new email address, if you can. I’m sorry you’re going through this. What an awful, heartless person. 

Post # 7
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610 posts
Busy bee

I was going to say block her phone, email, social media, all of it, but then you said she keeps making new emails, that’s straight up crazy. If possible I’d make yourself a new email address. Otherwise when you see her name, delete without reading as if it’s spam. 

Post # 8
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132 posts
Blushing bee

Wowwww she sounds like a cruel little girl desperate for attention :\

If you have no need to have contact with your ex, just stay silent and keep blocking her every time she attempts to contact you. Don’t fuel the fire, responding will only give her a window to keep engaging you and trying to get under your skin. Eventually she’ll realize that all she’s doing is humiliating herself (or maybe she won’t, but either way, not your problem!).

But wow, seriously, I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this nutcase! Don’t let her get you down, stay classy 🙂

Post # 9
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10456 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Block her on all social media and get a new email. Save everything she’s been sending you so you have it documented for the police in case she starts to escalate her behavior.

Do not respond to her. It’s best not to engage at all.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Get a restraining order against her. That should scare her enough to leave you alone. 

Post # 13
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902 posts
Busy bee

Wow. I think you already did too much in the past by talking to her.

I would just change my email and block her and the EX on everything. There is really no reason to be in contact with him anymore. Its really not your concern that he sees you as the love of his life or reasons why he is with her. 

BLOCK them and wish them the best. 

Post # 14
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1168 posts
Bumble bee

Agree with the restraining order.  She’s harrassing you.  Keep all of the calls in your log, keep all of the messages, document what’s said in the conversations with dates and times corresponding to your phone log.  She’s nuts and I’m sorry you’re dealing with that!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee

Don’t know if this is the best idea (prob not), but if I were in your shoes I’d prob tell my ex that if she didn’t stop contacting me I’d go to the cops. If he’s really still in love with you, he will probably try to stop her from distressing you. 

Other than that, I agree with everyone who said block her on every medium. 

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