(Closed) Extra band advice POLL

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What should I do?

    Wear E-ring and extra band!

    Don't wear extra band until after marriage in 2+ years!

    Other, please comment!

  • Post # 2
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I would just wear the ering until your married, then you can wear both bands with it. But it really isn’t a big deal if you do where them before marriage, do what you feel is right for you!

    Post # 3
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

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    jmj1021:  I feel like I’ve seen this set before. Is it by chance Neil Lane bridal? 

    Post # 5
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    Helper bee

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    jmj1021:  Of course you can do whatever you like, but I personally wouldn’t wear anything other than the engagement ring until I was married. The outer band, I would wear until some time after marriage and for a significant reason (eg. anniversary, first child etc). For sure, it would be hard to resist wearing them if I had them already but I really like having sentiment behind each ring and wearing them as a each one actually becomes “official”. Feels more special that way, IMO.

    Your set is gorgeous, btw 🙂

    Post # 8
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

    I would wear just the engagement ring until married.

    Post # 9
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: March 2015

      I have an extra band and I began wearing it on the outside immediately after the ceremony. I was told by several people that it was okay to wear it before the wedding with my e-ring as a sort of “guard” (have a 1.5 carat oval solitaire and the bands are both a plain matching rose gold) but as I have small fingers I felt it looked like I was already married. Beautiful rings by the way. I wasn’t able to pull off the larger look because of my baby fingers,  lol. 

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee

    I think I would just wait and wear your engagement ring until your married. 

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 1995

    Since you are having such a long engagement I suppose you could consider the extra band to be sort of a promise band and wear it with the engagement ring now and then add the third band as the wedding ring when you are married. It really doesn’t matter what you call the bands though -if you’re okay with it and your Fi is okay with it do what makes you feel happy. 🙂 Beautiful rings btw!

    Post # 13
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    Buzzing bee

    I have a pink sapphire eternity band that I wear with my ering sometimes because I love the pop of color so I say do what you want LOL

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

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    jmj1021:  I would just wear your e-ring only…. Iam going to get two single bands like you too and when we do purchase them I will not wear either one till our wedding date which may end up being 2017 aswell 

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