(Closed) Extreme Guilt

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
150 posts
Blushing bee

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kaligirl1102 :  I think you are going overboard. It sounds like you have paid for a lot of their expenses already. They can pay for their own hotel rooms. You sound like a really thoughtful person. When I was a bridesmaid ( many times) I paid for my dress, hair and accommodations and travel. I think you paid way more than most brides do. It gets too expensive. Let these people help you out and pay their own way. What you could do is block off some rooms at regular prices.

Post # 4
569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I would cover everything except the hotel.  The hotel is the one place they have flexibility in terms of pricing so each girl/couple can decide how much they want to spend and find a hotel to suit.  You are picking a dress for them to wear so I would pay for that. 

Post # 5
336 posts
Helper bee

If you have the money, sure, cover what you can. As a bridesmaid though I expect to pay for my dress, shoes, and travel plans (hotel and airfare). I do not expect to be forced to doing my own hair and makeup though (if the bride requires it they pay it).

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