(Closed) Facebook comments, should i comment back or just ignore

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
673 posts
Busy bee

I don’t think the comment calls for a response. If you let it go, I don’t think anyone will be offended or care.

Post # 5
1598 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

ugh, why do people assume they’re invited to your wedding??? (I’ve gotten similar reactions a few times from people who aren’t invited).

Personally, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you wishing her a happy birthday. And if you assume she’s kidding about the wedding invite but aren’t sure, I just wouldn’t respond at all. If you feel obligated to respond to her or the other girl, just say something tactful like, “It would be nice to have you at our wedding, but unfortunately we don’t have the room at the venue/finances for a big wedding/our families are so big we can’t include many friends.” Then put a Undecided face or something. lol

Nothing wrong with a little white lie in that situation, in my opinion.

Don’t delete your wedding status.  You shouldn’t have to keep your wedding celebrations/plans secret because some people might get offended. Those who matter most to you will be there, and if they can’t be for some reason, they’ll understand. Those who get mad aren’t worth stressing over, IMO.

Post # 6
7490 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Just let it be.  I’m sure she was just trying to be nice by showing happiness for your upcoming wedding.

Post # 8
1088 posts
Bumble bee

@ItsDestiny:  yeah just don’t comment back.. i had a couple people ask me on fb to send them an invitation or if they were invited.. i just never replied.. now i’m married and nothing bad happened 🙂 sometimes i think people say it just to say it and they would be happy to be invitited but it wouldn’t crush them if they weren’t..

Post # 9
5271 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yep, agree with the others. I wouldn’t comment back.

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