Post # 1
So I wrote happy birthday to my ex’s mom via FB. We got friendly after we broke up since I visited her at the mall when she did work there. She commented back and thanking me and saying waiting for her invitation for the wedding. I’m sure she is kidding but should I even bother commenting back.
I have gotten to the point to deleted my status of my wedding since people have been asking can they come. I did have this one girl was like post pics of your wedding and i said I would and then she came back with or you can just send me an invite. Umm no? lol
Post # 3
I don’t think the comment calls for a response. If you let it go, I don’t think anyone will be offended or care.
Post # 4
thanks, I thought so. I just didn’t want to come off rude
Post # 5
ugh, why do people assume they’re invited to your wedding??? (I’ve gotten similar reactions a few times from people who aren’t invited).
Personally, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you wishing her a happy birthday. And if you assume she’s kidding about the wedding invite but aren’t sure, I just wouldn’t respond at all. If you feel obligated to respond to her or the other girl, just say something tactful like, “It would be nice to have you at our wedding, but unfortunately we don’t have the room at the venue/finances for a big wedding/our families are so big we can’t include many friends.” Then put a face or something. lol
Nothing wrong with a little white lie in that situation, in my opinion.
Don’t delete your wedding status. You shouldn’t have to keep your wedding celebrations/plans secret because some people might get offended. Those who matter most to you will be there, and if they can’t be for some reason, they’ll understand. Those who get mad aren’t worth stressing over, IMO.
Post # 6
Just let it be. I’m sure she was just trying to be nice by showing happiness for your upcoming wedding.
Post # 7
I’ll just let it be.
@ Stace126 it is so annoying. And thanks, My Fiance and I work together and we have some of our co-workers assuming they are coming, but we are only having our bridal party from work coming my brother and his two friends. We even had a lady offer her daughter as our flower girl haha
Post # 8
@ItsDestiny: yeah just don’t comment back.. i had a couple people ask me on fb to send them an invitation or if they were invited.. i just never replied.. now i’m married and nothing bad happened 🙂 sometimes i think people say it just to say it and they would be happy to be invitited but it wouldn’t crush them if they weren’t..
Post # 9
Yep, agree with the others. I wouldn’t comment back.