- 8 years ago
- Wedding: January 2011
so i suppose this is partly my fault for getting myself into this situation. i was talking to my bridesmaid the other day about the lunch i had with my Fiance aunt who has graciously offered to host a bridal shower for me. i had never met her before so after sitting down for lunch she told me that i looked much prettier in real life than on facebook (she friended me on facebook after we got engaged). i thought this was kinda funny and didn’t take it in an insulting fashion at all mostly because i had a goody picture as my profile pic that in all honesty wasn’t that flattering. my bridesmaid got kind of worked up about it when i was telling her though and i kind of brushed it off as “meh, it’s not that big of a deal.
well this afternoon she then posts to my facebook wall “Don’t worry, you’re much prettier in life than your profile picture ; ) Wah wah wahhhhh lol.” uhhhhh seriously?! i’m FRIENDS with the aunt, that’s how she was able to make the comment in FIRST place! i deleted it as soon as i saw it but unfortunately it was up for 2 hrs before i noticed. i know that the bm didn’t mean it in a mean way, the idea that the aunt could see the comment probably never occurred to her. but now i’m petrified that the aunt may have seen the comment and is going to think that i’m some jerk now. i feel terrible. i realize now that i should not have said anything to my bridesmaid about the comment but i just thought it was amusing! that doesn’t mean i want it broadcasted for the whole world to see!
i’m just super nervous about the whole situation now.