(Closed) facebook common sense

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wouldn’t blame yourself for telling your bridesmaid the story, she’s obviously a good friend and someone you share things with.  It’s her mistake for posting something publicly about something you told her in private.  I would say something to her about how you feel, maybe she didn’t think about how it could hurt your aunt.  This is why I hate things like Facebook.

Post # 4
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wouldn’t worry too much…chances are still slim that your aunt saw it. I doubt she’s a frequent visitor to your page if she just met you! And I doubt she would be that offended if she did see it.

Post # 5
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

If the aunt made that kind of comment, I don’t think she would be quick enough to pick up that your friend’s comment referred to hers. She probably goes on like twice a week and didn’t notice.

Don’t sweat it, I’m sure your friend was just trying to be funny (and it is really).

Post # 6
108 posts
Blushing bee

They key on Facebook is to assume NO ONE has common sense. For some reason, Facebook makes people think they can say whatever they want, as if it’s a private conversation, and not visible to everyone. I don’t trust Facebook. I disabled my account about a year ago over privacy concerns.

Post # 7
2309 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I wouldn’t worry about it too much. I think it was pretty reckless of your bm, but I don’t think Fiance aunt would pick up on it during that short window.

To be safe I’d make sure to  be extra nice to her, let her know there’s no mal thoughts on your behalf.

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