(Closed) Facebook invites, dictating clothing, and strip clubs. Maybe I'm a snob.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You are not prude, this was a clear violation of facebook over-sharing.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d be annoyed with the whole situation too.  I actually recently changed my settings so no one can tag me in a status without me approving it first.  I don’t need to advertise every place I go! 

I think the dress code thing is annoying, but, eh, if that’s what they wanted, at least it was a standard outfit that someone would own, not something ridiculous or expensive. But I would weigh my options carefully about going if someone dictated my clothing!

Strip club pictures.  Inappropriate, in every sense of the word.  Putting them on facebook?  Ridiculous, offensive, and really, really bizarre.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

@Cady:  Yup. It’s the very reason why I turned off the “tagging” functionality on Facebook. Only I can tag myself in something!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

hahahaha that’s very awkward… Laugh it off, and make a joking comment on one of the posts where you’re tagged saying something like it’s a good thing you weren’t actually there, or you may not have survived such a wild night. That might help them figure out they mistagged you. How people embarass themselves online is their problem, not everyone has figured out that anyone at any point in time may end up seeing that stuff. Don’t take it too seriously, nothing to be done about it now except take yourself out of the mess 🙂

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Completely inappropriate. If I were the bride I’d be pretty miffed and ask the Maid/Matron of Honor to at the very least make the album private, if not remove it entirely. And if I were in your shoes, I’d remove my tags from all pictures – you weren’t even there. You don’t need your 70 year old Aunt Millicent looking at a picture you were tagged in of scantly clad people doing belly shots or whathaveyou. I don’t know what your job is but I’d be concerned about coworkers or employers seeing them too.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yep, definitely inappropriate.  Although I don’t mind having a “dress code” for the party… I think doing LBD parties or something similar is cute.

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