Post # 91
I too at one point found myself accepting way less than I deserved and would have called myself a “chaser” I was always chasing a guy who wasn’t that into me. My parents are still married, great childhood, literally not one complaint. But it does happen sometimes that our earliest relationships train us to accept less than we deserve. I dated a guy on and off for 4 years trying to get him to “admit” he loved me. Yikes. When I met my now husband and our relationship went so well and was easy that I had to adjust to that feeling. I was so used to having to work for it and being semi rejected that for a time I wondered if there wasn’t a “spark” as people say. Hilarious actually that what was missing was awful drama. But I was so used to chasing someone who didn’t like me that when I found someone who did love me I had to realize this is how it’s supposed to be! Anyways, don’t feel like you are alone in having to figure it out.