- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
i have just had a major argument with a close friend of mine who i have been friends with over 15 years. Felling a little shaken up and upset. we have always been close.
last year she got engaged and asked me to be bridesmaid- i was thrilled and offered to buy the dress as she is short of cash
they have just booked the wedding and i only found this out when i met up with her today.
So today she said shed booked the wedding, was like ‘oh right’ thinking it was odd that she hadn’t said earlier when they booked it earlier in the week
she wasnt forthcoming about it so i casually asked some questions
She said it was smaller, I said is she still having bridesmaids, she said yep but just family
Was thinking oh thats weird……especially as she asked me already
THEN she said shes having another mutual friend as maid of honour?????
i had to badger it out of her though as she wouldnt tell me, she was SO shifty about it all.
So shes basically sacked ME OFF!!!!! I didn’t say anything as I was miffed and upset and just digesting it so was being a tad quiet. i hate full on rows so i kept my mouth shut even though i was majorly hurting.
So we were walking along and she just totally turned on me and was like WHATS YOUR PROBLEM? All up in my face!!!!!
She was so confrontational (so obviously as she knew she was in the wrong so pre empted an attack!)
So I said I was hurt as she asked me last year and if shed changed her mind I wish she could have been honest and just told me that rather than bumping me off with no word?!!!!!
‘I HAVE NO MONEY AND ITS FAMILY’
I went mad, I was like NO ITS NOT FAMILY AS OUR FRIEND IS BEING MAID OF HONOUR
And I SAID ID PAY FOR THE DRESS!!!!
Anyway we had a full on row
just feel it was so so mean of her, she was vile and i didnt deserve such an attack, especially as i feel she has snubbed me majorly.
she says she cant remember that conversation and that she never asked me
which is so hurtful as she did.
i feel hurt and stabbed in the back
sounds like she wants rid of me but i have always been a good friend to her