- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
One year to the day before our wedding a went into the tiny jewerlly shop were i brought DP engagment ring ( i proposed to him i dont wear a ring myself). There sat just were i had seen DP 18 months before was the female version of his ring. I tried it on tiny little bit small but fitted and it was hot in the shop.
I could believe my luck….. a matching ring, from the same shop infact the same designer ( or so the lady said) last one left of a run of 12 only…… in a metal i can wear stainless steel (i dont like gold, cant aford white gold, patinum etc and have had problems with silver) …. it even had a tiny dimond which was my dream to have a ring with a real dimond… plus it was 1/2 price because the shop was closing down.
But more I look at it the more its just not right. I thought it was ring love but Im thinking now it was lust. I was so happy to have found a stainless ring with dimond that we could afford that i impulse brought it. 🙁 I dont like how it looks on really but how/what do I tell DP. I love to garden and this ring will get yuck in two minutes so will be always leaving it off or cleaning it. plus Im not 100% it will fit on the day if its hot as my hand swell in the heat and its wide which makes them swell more. I just dont know if it hadnt have matched DP I wouldnt have looked twice at it. Can I really buy another ring? And were from in the uk?
But now I dont know what to do there has only been one other ring I love but it white gold has a tiny dimond and is £500 which is more tgen we have spent the whole wedding day so there is no way I can afford that on but I keep thinking about it.