(Closed) Falling out with a BM – advice please!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Bunny0711: Honestly?  Talk to your Fiance and the two of you need to confront her and tell her she’s out because of her rude, nasty behavior.  I’d also warn those you hang out with prior to doing this as a “fair warning/heads up” type thing so they will at least have your side.  no need to let her have the edge, right?  😉

It sounds like she has some serious problems that she probably needs professional help with.  Either with drug abuse/alcohol abuse and/or emotional therapy or all the above.  That’s just my opinion, not a professional one. 😉

Good luck and sorry you have to deal with this!

Post # 4
860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I would call her to talk about it.  Be the bigger person.

Post # 5
858 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’d kick her out of the wedding (if you and your Fiance both don’t feel close to her) and maybe look into ways to get her help for her drug and alcohol problems. She is on a downward spiral, and I think the least you could do as a (former?) friend is help her out of it, at least indirectly. Good luck. I’m sorry that you have to deal with this, and I hope everything works out for everyone involved.

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