- 6 years ago
Just curious to see if others bees have ever noticed this pattern in a current or previous relationship:
An SO/FI/DH making very good intentioned plans or “promises” and then forgetting about them or breaking them. (Not all the time – but enough for it to aggitate me).
for example: SO knows he has been working constantly and I really want to spend some uninterrupted time together. One night after a discussion about it he promises “we will go away overnight next weekend.” Next weekend rolls around and…………. surprise! we don’t end up going away. I’ve mentioned it, he literally acts like he just forgot he said it.
It isn’t that he never follows through, but I do catch him making false plans sometimes… *with other people too. I am a stickler for being dependable, especially with my loved ones, so it definitely irks me sometimes.
It isn’t a deal breaker, he’s a sweetheart. It is annoying though. Like don’t make 50 plans at once!
Anyone else deal with this?