(Closed) False Promises and Pretend Plans

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
6414 posts
Bee Keeper

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Anna113619:  My ex was like that, a people pleaser, he didn’t try to box me out, but by trying to please everyone , I usually was the last to know or the one that got short changed.  We ended up having ot have a serious conversation about it.  But when he realized what he was doing it seemed to help a lot.  

Post # 3
2158 posts
Buzzing bee

Hmm, no, that is weird.  Does he have a hard time dealing with confrontation? Or a strong desire to make everyone happy.  That is behavior that I would be seeking to put an end to.  Maybe it isn’t a deal breaker but he probably feels like its a strategy that is working.  (Just tell them what they want to hear) but you don’t want to go through life never knowing whether or not to trust his words.

Post # 4
584 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

My SO does this–I HATE it. I think sometimes he really does forget, or doesn’t realize how big of a deal it was to me, but that doensn’t make it any less annoying!

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