(Closed) family advice, baby related.. a little long

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Hopefully she will change her behavior before these babies are born. One would think that she would have learned by now to treat her children equally,

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Ohhh that’s so sad! I’m so sorry you are going through that, that must be so hard especially being pregnant when everything is more upsetting. ((HUGS)). Can you talk to your SIL about it? Maybe not the gift thing directly but something about how you noticed that she hasn’t taken as much of an interest in your baby as she has in other babies? And you’re wondering what that’s about? Or even talk directly to her? That really is a strange situation and I can’t help but think there’s definitely a reason besides money being tight. Whether it’s your relationship or some weird kind of jealousy over you/your baby taking her son away (hey it happens) .. something. Either way it is hurtful and I think it would be a good idea to address it before the baby feels the hurt herself. Good luck! Again I’m so sorry! 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That seriously sucks. I would feel super shitty if I were in your position. I don’t gave any advice, just (( hugs ))

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

My Future Sister-In-Law is the same way. I ignore her because she’s nuts and my baby has another aunt who will love him or her, so it’s all good. As long as she has other ppl who love her, it doesn’t even matter. Your Mother-In-Law is a B*tch for acting like that. Maybe she’ll change, maybe not.

Don’t worry about it because baby will be loved regardless!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Talk to her…forget mediating with your husband, Honestly, I think she is old enough and so are you that…if you have a problem with her, you should totally bring it up (in a very nice, polite way obviously). I don’t even know her and I wanna confront her right now!

If nothing works….like the others said: That baby will be loved! Who cares if grannie acts crazy sometimes, I’m sure everyone else will be obsessed with that little one once he/she arrives!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

but yeah I wouldn’t mention the gifts…just the overall concept 

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