(Closed) Family Bridesmaid Drama!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i would tell her if she cant be nice and supportive then you dont want he standing up with you on one of the most important days of your life. plain and simple… and i might be with the minority on this one… but i would have no problem with telling someone in my bridal party that they are acting like a bi*** and i dont want them in my wedding. if you are having so many problems with her now… if you dont say something to fix it itll prolly only get worse. 🙁

Post # 4
612 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I agree with stephanie63087, if she can’t play nice then she can sit on the sidelines.  You have two choices, 1) let her continue to be mean and make snarky comments or 2) tell her she is out and enjoy your planning and wedding day.  The sooner you can tell her the better.  You are not being a bitchy bride.  And having class doesn’t mean you don’t stick up for yourself, it means you do so in a classy way that still gets the message across.

Post # 5
5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

so this is the cousin you are currently living with?  i think if i’d been living with her rent free i would offer to pay for her bridesmaid dress (if you still want her in the wedding)

Post # 6
3 posts
  • Wedding: September 2010

@whatwasisgone:  Go with your instinct, you have the right idea.   Be straightforward with her.   Don’t let her ruin your experience and suck your energy by causing unnecessary drama – give her the choice to backout while maintaining that it is important to you that she be there as guest or bridesmaid but that she needs to decide.   Then let it go.   You have much bigger things to take care of in planning your wedding.

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