- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
I do not come from the white fenced perfect little family, although my Fiance does, my family is no-where near that. My biological father left my mother when I was 6 weeks old and has never been apart of my life where I’ve been comfortable to call him ‘dad’. Whereas, my step father has been in my life since I was 2 and I consider him as my ‘dad’. The trouble is, I have a brother who is 3.5 years older than I am, and he has a very strong relationship with our biological father and is upset with me that I do not want him walking me down the isle, let alone at the wedding at all. Please note, my brother is a very strong aggressive natured person and makes comments and remarks known when he disagrees with anything. I’m not sure what to do. Appease him to keep him quiet and have our “BD” there, or go with my own feelings and keep him away? (And trust me, I’ve tried talking to my brother, so has my fiance, step father, and mother… he’s very stubborn and vocal).