(Closed) Family Drama Llama

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
7693 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@atalante:  Are you inviting everyone who is Out of Town to the rehearsal dinner, or just the wedding party itself?

Post # 5
Hostess
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If they can stay civil or their daughter, I think they can stay civil to put their differences aside them for your wedding. It is nice that you’re considering the sensitivity of the situation; I say invite them both to the rehearsal dinner or invite none. Are other aunts/uncles being invited to the rehearsal dinner? If so, then all are invited, if none, then you can get away without inviting anyone and keeping the dinner small.

Post # 8
Member
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Man I feel your pain.. my grandma and grandpa recently went through i kind of messy divorce so there was the whole who are we gonna put where issue.  I would say just ask her how she feels about it or have someone in the your family ask.  That’s what we finally did with my grandma (she was actually my mom’s step mom so shes my third grandma).  My mom asked her and she said she didn’t want to sit at a table with him but other than that she was fine with them being around.  Since the wedding they’re on speaking terms again so now they can sit at the same table even.

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