(Closed) Family drama–need opinions!

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I do anything in this situation?
    No, stay out of it : (2 votes)
    15 %
    Yes, talk to your brother, but not his fiance : (11 votes)
    85 %
    Yes, talk to your brother AND his fiance : (0 votes)
    Other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    • Wedding: April 2011

    Your brother IS your business… And going to him and talking it out with him is not out of line in the least. You should have a close enough relationship as siblings to be involved in each others lives to this degree.

    Ultimately you want your brother to have a good relationship with ya’lls parents just as much you want your parents to have a good relationship with him.

    As for his fiance.. I’d probably leave her out of it… even though she was part of the decision to agree that the $ be for the house & not the wedding. Her actions tell me that she’s unlikely to see anything wrong with her behavior and since she’s coming in as in “in-law” you two probably don’t have the relationship base to warrant such a conversation.

    I know that I would definitely interceed for my parents OR my sibling if it were the other way around. I care very much about my family and having unity… and since they’re my direct family In My Humble Opinion they fall under “my business” lol

    I would have lunch with your brother and see if ya’ll can talk it through… even if you have to have a couple lunches to break the barrier… ulitmately I think it’s worth it.

    Goodluck

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