(Closed) Family drama on picking FG! Advice needed…kinda long.

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I think you should do 2 Flower Girl and 2 Ring Bearer and that way, everyone is included and everyone feels special.

Post # 4
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I had to read your post twice as the whole thing is a little confusing. I find this situation to be completely ridiclous this child life isn’t going to end because she not a flower girl at someone wedding. Pick who you want, and tell your sister that who in your wedding party and to get over it.

Post # 6
7527 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I love weddings with multiple flower girls.

Post # 7
3625 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We have no bridal party and yet, we have multiple FGs. People love Ring Bearer and Flower Girl (unless they’re the angry, upset, and “clearly hates this role” type RB/FG). I would just have all the kids as it’s more the merrier, assuming they are all mature enough to handle the “responsibility”. In addition, since their parents are more of the pushy ones, I would see if they would cover the outfits. Then all you need to get would be flowers/something to carry (if you like) and a small gift for each (e.g. toy).

Post # 8
1274 posts
Bumble bee

This. Is the reason why I don’t have any flower girls or ringbearers. Too difficult to choose with multiple young cousins in the fam. Your wedding is a clean slate, no matter who had who in a sibling’s wedding. That being said…

I would suggest having both little girls in. Multiple FGs are adorable, as are multiple RBs. Or just don’t have any. 


Post # 10
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Kate0558:  If you think she will behave then by all means do it. I had 4 FGs and no Ring Bearer. It was cute. Make sure her mother pays for all her accessories though and if she starts acting jealous feel fre to relieve the Flower Girl of her responsbilities.

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