(Closed) Family Drama Seeping into My Wedding

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

Don’t express concern because our brother doesn’t care. Continue planning your wedding ad focus on yours alone. The future sister in law doesn’t want you guys involved. Don’t push it.

Post # 4
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184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Aside from not inviting them to your own wedding, I don’t think there’s much you can do here. 

You could talk to your brother privately, but my guess is that your concerns will fall upon deaf ears.  He’s living rent free, working an easy job, and getting away with lying to your family.  He has no incentive to listen to you.  You’ll have to sit back and wait for his future in-laws to cut them both off.

And for the record, if my Future Sister-In-Law made it clear that she doesn’t like my family, I’d make it clear that she isn’t welome to be a part of it anyway. 

 

Post # 5
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1294 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Hey, I am so sad to see this post because I followed your story for the mast month or so in Waiting and then your beautiful mountaintop engagement.. The last thing I wanted to see was drama for you. This is such a tough situation though, and I see where you are coming from completely. I would be so frustrated and disappointed if this were my situation because of your borther’s Fiance drama..

Honestly, they seem so immature and it seems as if they arent going to listen to anyones opinion, even if it is to ultimately help them. They will see it as criticism. If this were me, I would tell him what you need to in order to feel better for yourself and then leave it alone and focus on your day and your planning process.Just being cheerful and supportive when needed and not getting too emotionally invested in his day will make things easier. IF his Fiance creates drama throughout this process, it wont fly if there is no audience right?

Good luck!

Post # 7
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

Oh and you are getting married on my birthday! Perfect day choice 7/28 is always a great day 😀

Post # 8
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

Oh and you are getting married on my birthday! Perfect day choice 7/28 is always a great day 😀

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