(Closed) Family Drama: Should they still be invited? (sorry it’s long)

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you say anything to her & would you remove them from your guestlist?
    Ask why I didn't receive an invitation AND remove them from guestlist : (4 votes)
    15 %
    Ask why I didn't receive an invitation BUT keep them on the guestlist : (10 votes)
    38 %
    Do not ask anything & just don't send them a wedding invitation : (6 votes)
    23 %
    Don't ask anything but send an invitation since they received a save-the-date : (6 votes)
    23 %
    Other - please specify : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    2288 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    Well. That sucks. Honestly, I’d still invite her to your wedding only because it sounds like it would cause more drama if you didn’t (you live next door to her sister). And I’d also suggest talking to her about the invite, since you moved your event to accomodate her. A polite “what gives” convo may be in order, and in the future, don’t feel the need to reschedule for her.

    ETA: If you dont’ think it would cause much drama if you didn’t invite her, don’t.

    Post # 5
    Member
    79 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I 100% agree with your Fiance. You actually rescheduled your event for her, and then first she doesn’t even use the date, and second you don’t get an invite. she obviously has no respect for you and I say the heck with her I would replace her and her Fiance at your wedding with people who actually want there. And that part about the bottle of moet,I had to read over it a few times to make sure I read correctly, that is unbelievably rude

    Post # 6
    Member
    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I am still shocked at them asking you to reschedule your event in the first place. It was so kind of you to accomodate, but then to not use the date or invite you? You don’t have to justify your guest list to anyone but the people paying. If someone asks why she wasn’t invited, just say “We would love to have her there, but we have budget / location constraints that prevent us from inviting more people.”

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