(Closed) Family Drama…What to do?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 4
450 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Say okay, sorry you will miss the wedding.

Just because she decided to move on from her family, does not mean everyone else has to.

Post # 5
1319 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

If the only reason she left her husband is because she found another man, she’s being ridiculously immature. It’s her sister’s day, and her ex is still her sister’s friend. Your friend should explain that regardless of her sister’s choices, her ex has become a friend in his own right over the (many) years, and he will be there. If she chooses not to come, that’s her problem, though it will really really hurt her. If her sister makes that decision, she has bigger issues to work through than being in the same place as her ex.

Post # 6
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Hmm, awkward situation. If I were your friend, I’d say tough cookies to my sister if only the CLhusband could/would bring the daugher to the wedding. IMO, if she left/cheated, she’s in the wrong, and while both her and CLBIL would have different relationships with me after a split, I wouldn’t treat him poorly or cut him out because of her choice. Especially if he was a friend of mine/became a friend during their relationship.

Post # 7
899 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would kick my sister the hell out of the wedding. That’s just insanely immature of her.

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