(Closed) Family Feud Stemming from 10 years go interferring with wedding

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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dup24m:  This sounds like a mess and some families just really can’t get along. I don’t see any end to this here because your aunt is nuts, your cousin is nuts and everyone seems to know how they are so they enable their behavior.

I would not invite them. Your wedding is supposed to be attended by people you love that love and respect you and that you want to be there. You have no obligation to invite them whatsoever.

Honestly, the further you keep them away from your lives and stop talking to them the better off you will be. When your family tries to intervene just tell them you don’t want to hear one more word about this again. You are not a child- stop letting people treat you as such. You can choose to remove yourself from other people’s problems which it is quite clear they have many.

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

oh the crazy aunts and cousins… yes I agree with MissJulianna, just keep a distance away from them. I stay away from the crazies as well!

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

So you cussed your cousin out 10 years ago. Time for everybody to let it go. You may not be able to do anything about your aunt, but your parents may not be a lost cause yet. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

IDK what is wrong with your mom, but I feel like she is more interested in keeping the peace with the crazies than her own daughter which is so wrong on so many levels.

I find it completely insane that they all took the word of some bratty teenager over an adult and continue to cause trouble about this a decade later and that your aunt continues to talk shit about you to your own mother. There is a reason that she feels that she can do this, and that is because your mother allows her to.

I would let my mom know exactly how I feel about the situation, how inappropriate, disrespectful and vindictive they are, and how horrible it is that she has chosen sides against her own daughter. I would also let her know how toxic these people have become in your lives and that if she wishes to continue to treat you like this while standing by them, then she doesn’t really have a place at your wedding either and that the 3 of them can sit at home talking about you while you marry the love of your life.

 

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 7 months ago by  MissJulianna.
Post # 9
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Busy bee

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dup24m:  Your cousins father dying is not a reason to be disrespectful to others in the family. I think this whole situation was blown out of proportion.

I would distance myself from all of them. If your parents are not supporting you, then I wouldnt talk to them either. This is a petty thing to come between the families.

I also would not invite your aunt or your bratty cousin to the wedding. You need your day as drama free as possible.

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