(Closed) Family frustration

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@littlegreenleaf:  I’m sorry you are dealing with difficult family members. This site should be for venting/ranting/high fiving. I am currently taking care of a difficult family member while living here to pay for wedding/moving stuff. It is frustrating but everyday when I wake up or fall asleep I tell myself three reasons this is a good sitch. It sounds cheesey and yogi but it helps me feel calmer when they are annoying the eff out of me. Plus there is the added comfort of knowing it is temp. It is a test. You will ace it and never have to experience it again. : )

Post # 5
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@littlegreenleaf:  Oh girl. Same story. My Fi knows when I have had a bad dealing with my family because I am cold and distant towards him. I too am working on it :/

Post # 7
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@littlegreenleaf:  It’s so tough though! You think about all the stress you’re feeling and the last thing you want to do is put it on your Fi. It’s sucha sticky sitch, esp when it’s family because THEY ARE GOING NOWHERE (darnit…) so you don’t want to freak now when it’ll be apart of your life as long as they live.

 

I suggest whiskey/red wine 🙂

Also thank you for feeling similar. I was starting to feel like a hag…

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