(Closed) family issue…help

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 18
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Buzzing bee

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1234qwerty94:  That’s perfect though. If your grandmother’s husband joins you for the meals but can hang out doing stuff in London while you girls are at the fair, that might be a good enough compromise. Maybe your mom could suggest it?

Post # 20
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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1234qwerty94:  I hate manipulative people, but sometimes worse are the people around them who don’t realise it!

Good luck shaking him off…If you’ve for breakfast with the creep then you can easily spike his tea 😉

Post # 21
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Helper bee

Yeah, I wouldn’t go.  I’m sorry, but I’m at that age where I am not spending time with toxic people -period.  Grandma can love him all she wants, but I’d ask for this to be my christmas gift from her and if she says no, then I’d be going by myself.

Post # 22
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Sugar Beekeeper

Awful situation . Frankly I would absolutely HATE for him to be there (especially as  he is that creepy, controlling   sort of guy who likes  choosing women’s clothes for them,   eeew)  It woudl seriously spoil my day .

I would contact grandma ( or get mum to)  and  say it really , really is a girls day grandma, I thought  you  were joking about whatsis name  coming, honestly  sorry but he is NOT invited, and that is it . If she refuses, I’d contact him and tell him to his face /phone. So sorry for the misunderstanding   , but NOT invited , it’s a woman-only trip.    

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