- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I have made a decision to not invite two of my cousins and i know i have made the right decision. They are notorious for fighting and making scenes during holiday and family get togethers. We were very close as kids but they older they got the more disrespectful and hateful they have become. Their grandmother and their aunt have bended over backward for them and yet they still scream and carry on towards them. They are 17 and 20 years old. They blame their behavior and actions on their “hard upbringing”. I had a hard upbringing as well so its hard for me to accept that as an excuse to they way they carry on. I feel very strongly about this but I dont know how to convince them im not trying to be evil. They think I absolutley Hate them. I tried explaining simply: I love you and I wish you the best but i just cant invite you to my wedding because of the way you behave. Am I being too harsh? What can i do so they understand?